Seem, I'm (not) Miss You

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_zklgXvlFrgEyFWRaK5Cv9aN8N8hF7rkaHzLWzCCkVjBoULlA5_sYRIH9JRFJl7tLdwz1LPQ0Fb8JoWA8hF9UNxS1GHBEasnI8LHAcEkg9_cLwIKwRBblNjC6TaHRtI2Ybwc5NbbYW9oQ/s1600/blovespot+-+poetry+-+im+not+missing+you.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="blovespot - poetry - im not missing you" border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh_zklgXvlFrgEyFWRaK5Cv9aN8N8hF7rkaHzLWzCCkVjBoULlA5_sYRIH9JRFJl7tLdwz1LPQ0Fb8JoWA8hF9UNxS1GHBEasnI8LHAcEkg9_cLwIKwRBblNjC6TaHRtI2Ybwc5NbbYW9oQ/s1600/blovespot+-+poetry+-+im+not+missing+you.jpg" title="blovespot - poetry - im not missing you" width="320" /></a></div> A maze of confusion.<br /> No one knows why.<br /> Wall this wall does not echo anything.<br /> Day will not change seems.<br /> Will not change.<br /> Will not.<br /> Only boisterous sounding.<br /> There is no meaning to sound.<br /> Maybe just boisterous.<br /> Maybe just verbal.<br /> <br /> I do not miss you.<br /> I swear I did not.<br /> Every gleaming eyes I forgot.<br /> Shrieked every laughter tip no.<br /> Stretching every tongue, I do not feel.<br /> Calm down, it seems I've not missed.<br /> Does not seem.<br /> Absolutely not.<br /> <br /> by <a href="http://dkakurnia.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Dika Kurniawan</a>

Seem, I'm (not) Miss You

A maze of confusion. No one knows why. Wall this wall does not echo anything. Day will not change seems. Will not change. Will not. ...

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We Swallowing Loneliness

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRsihQjPuxt3MqNmpEO-YbIccP997XLBsgIbGFmmR_7eFLOFGzn90nUN0QZONUngvzM1LhoWXPE05gX2UcxuX6bpilS7lPah-PNHNQHcsc7gMGVOf95BnFr2aVwVFLliq0P2mhoMQrb1Qh/s1600/blovespot+-+poetry+-+lonely+girl.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="blovespot - poetry - lonely girl" border="0" height="305" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiRsihQjPuxt3MqNmpEO-YbIccP997XLBsgIbGFmmR_7eFLOFGzn90nUN0QZONUngvzM1LhoWXPE05gX2UcxuX6bpilS7lPah-PNHNQHcsc7gMGVOf95BnFr2aVwVFLliq0P2mhoMQrb1Qh/s1600/blovespot+-+poetry+-+lonely+girl.jpg" title="blovespot - poetry - lonely girl" width="320" /></a></div> So beautiful mouth with cigarettes do you tuck in between two fingers.<br /> Perhaps the world is not comparable to the bitter jumble the table we ingest alcohol deserted.<br /> You do not care if some people think we are dirty.<br /> You do not care about karma because fate has dragged you inside.<br /> Tonight you never pass the lonely, because noisy with you until morning.<br /> We highlight the lights occasionally aware that only the tip of the nail.<br /> We're going to the floor of the dance, to slightly move enjoy music all day and shed our false to the world.<br /> Early morning is always like this, you and I who have always wanted to swallow deserted.<br /> <br /> by <a href="http://dkakurnia.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Dika Kurniawan</a>

We Swallowing Loneliness

So beautiful mouth with cigarettes do you tuck in between two fingers. Perhaps the world is not comparable to the bitter jumble the table...

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Women Come Together With Rain

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLzlgFTJpQwIJ183vjsPk6FpDcDKdYJ7b9BoBUVhyyepHMNMrU4rnfcI9ZcjQIb1y5PeNKebvwV7LxcZuHYJQrGH7x4vBtlVeLNzN47tVFZ_rrz45rqn40eFfy-PvFUwk_lHjx0EA09zBS/s1600/blovespot+-+poetry+-+women+in+the+rain.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="blovespot - poetry - women in the rain" border="0" height="212" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLzlgFTJpQwIJ183vjsPk6FpDcDKdYJ7b9BoBUVhyyepHMNMrU4rnfcI9ZcjQIb1y5PeNKebvwV7LxcZuHYJQrGH7x4vBtlVeLNzN47tVFZ_rrz45rqn40eFfy-PvFUwk_lHjx0EA09zBS/s1600/blovespot+-+poetry+-+women+in+the+rain.jpg" title="blovespot - poetry - women in the rain" width="320" /></a></div> Increasingly lonely hunt, a small step towards a deep step hindered by shadows. The moon was peeking out the window accidentally I open, breezy from the wind coming through the slits. At so there is no concern for his own body.<br /> Sometimes I hate technology, hunt offhand timeless. Whether work or passing bitch that ring it.<br /> The moon is right in front of my eyes as I stepped out of the door of my room. Beautiful, half and restless. Yes restless. Fret who'd been poisoning me, until I cursed his own cell phone. I do not know my mind distracted by something.<br /> ...........<br /> <br /> Coffee is never as sweet as this, when it rains and you came for the first time, soaking and foreign. I want to ask "have you come along the rain, what you also fall from the sky?" But no, I just looked at him, with an unusual pulse.<br /> Stall was pretty quiet, while I was in front of him still trying to drain away. His clothes were wet, pale lips as cold has spread in the body.<br /> "Waiter, make one hot tea please." I said simply, then I drove it for her drink.<br /> "Sorry miss, this is a hot tea."<br /> "No, thank you."<br /> "Why miss? I have no malicious intent to you anyway, I just want to give it."<br /> "No, thank you. I'm okay."<br /> "If you do not want to drink it's okay, just handheld course, you already pale fingers probably because of the cold." I watched the tea and put the table near her feet.<br /> "I'm sorry to bother you."<br /> "No I don't, it's okay miss."<br /> "Thank you by the way."<br /> "You're welcome."<br /> The rain never harmonizes, my heart beating so as metronome and rain make beats pitched. You, the women who came with your great rain is what makes the rhythm of pounding rain crowded. We talk and become acquainted with one another, her name Citra, and you like to learn to hate twilight and rain.<br /> "It seems to subside Cit, already can go home."<br /> "Yup, could return continues to change clothes. Wet all."<br /> "Cold, pretty much your house. Want to wear my jacket?"<br /> "Ah no, thanks already bought tea and accompanied by chatting up half of your long pants wet participate."<br /> "It's okay, really close to my house from here. After all, the jacket will also be returned hahahaha"<br /> "Really it's okay?"<br /> "Never mind it's okay, just use .... uh but return it" I joked.<br /> We exchanged phone numbers and then go home. I think this evening, but I think I see a rainbow.<br /> <br /> Sometimes extraordinary love starts from just plain ordinary meeting.<br /> <br /> After the incident we so often send each other text messages, talking to and fro, joking and plan our meetings back. The grounds were brought my jacket then I have no reason to see him, yes I will meet him again. Sunday, at 7 pm in a coffeshop.<br /> "Hi, have long to wait?"<br /> "Ah not really, I had just sat down."<br /> You come with long hair neat, short dress blue sea and fresh scents like rose.<br /> "This coat, once again thank you for last time."<br /> "Oh well, incidentally also"<br /> Now we are not talking about the rain, wet, and all the events of that time. We are talking more about each other and great I dare ask about your status. And it turns out you do not have a girlfriend and I'm grateful for it.<br /> "We can meet again, right? To enjoy a cup of latte again?"<br /> "Of course, why not." You said with a smile, a smile growing on her drowning. I do not know, I feel claustrophobic, there is something that will explode behind the ribs, mixed happily in love. I know I'm in love, I see everything to be beautiful. Every second of my brain I carve a smile and, increasingly, to describe yourself. I fell in love with you every time I think about you.<br /> ...........<br /> <br /> Day of change, the time passed so quickly and we are still two lovebirds who are in love. Day which is always filled with jokes, laughter and love. We are together and we are happy.<br /> Winds blowing from the east pretty fast, soon summer. Some leaves are visible leaves shed small streets we passed. The road was to be beautiful because not only black but also brown and ocher. You took some pictures and occasionally you show off to me. I, watching you and you seem happy with me. I was too happy to find you.<br /> "Eh, Cit?"<br /> "Yes?"<br /> "I'm..."<br /> "Hungry? Me too."<br /> "Well, we're looking to eat. What you Want to eat?"<br /> "Lasagna! I want lasagna"<br /> I want to reveal my feelings among the leaves are deciduous leaves that may still be tops when we first met. Do you enjoy your lasagna I harbored feelings.<br /> <br /> After that, a lot of time passed and I never again called for the contents of my heart. If anyone says that this is the will of God to be with you I do not deny it, I did not pass on the word I said at that time. It's my fault, it's my stupid. I hypocritical on my own feelings that had almost exploded. It's my fault, now let it go, women who came with the rain that now disappeared. Maybe he yawned by drought and no rain. He who came with rain, which suddenly lost during a long drought.<br /> <br /> by <a href="http://dkakurnia.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Dika Kurniawan</a>

Women Come Together With Rain

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Poetry is Tired

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfXzGxv_xTkACaSrHtoc_2EMi4cnfgJb35ZK85nZRdV9daxzX059vQoD__QZ908WPKXY-d7D2MUmG78ySs78fH8-IcOW0352SOAZH5bAvk5un5PERDULgeX4mdcaRj3KJr13kOZe7Exrst/s1600/blovespot+-+poetry+-+tired.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="blovespot - poetry - tired" border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfXzGxv_xTkACaSrHtoc_2EMi4cnfgJb35ZK85nZRdV9daxzX059vQoD__QZ908WPKXY-d7D2MUmG78ySs78fH8-IcOW0352SOAZH5bAvk5un5PERDULgeX4mdcaRj3KJr13kOZe7Exrst/s1600/blovespot+-+poetry+-+tired.jpg" title="blovespot - poetry - tired" width="320" /></a></div> It is a poem that tired, which does not know the direction of his temple.<br /> Collect the rest of the words that were scattered on the head, breaking all sense and logic.<br /> <br /> It is a poem that tired, leaning with resignation.<br /> There was no direction where this will lead poetry, maybe ignorance is now worthwhile.<br /> <br /> It is a poem that tired, so tired. I.<br /> Not illuminated corner is a place to hide from the word that can not jump out of the throat.<br /> <br /> Because this poem tired, tired not because life but only silence. Silence like a carcass that just silent.<br /> <br /> Let's say I have a carcass, which moves just do not what else to feel.<br /> My heart rot that is now beginning encroached fucking maggots, then let's just say I do not have it.<br /> You, young lady with beautiful eyes, do not you bit your head thinking about the start carcasses in isolation? Foreign from the first time to taste everything I have and you leave it alone.<br /> Miss, I confess, I do not hold you one who ran away from me. My stupid not realize you want to get away from me that is controlled by the ego.<br /> Miss, please come back and forgive me. Let me reveal a little taste of what I save.<br /> <br /> Miss, because this poem tired. I'm tired of waiting for you.<br /> <br /> by <a href="http://dkakurnia.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Dika Kurniawan</a>

Poetry is Tired

It is a poem that tired, which does not know the direction of his temple. Collect the rest of the words that were scattered on the head, ...

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Such Time

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGWvA364mjO6dUC0gEeissIDj4ITat7DJcDq7TgLMAYTiUgYQVI78o1gK9rtgV95Goc8GZIzysmuLfrsTL-eD6CT1_5mjBwBa3wI4_JtGZmLvxjf65I1xCNx4W3KdNNRVumRlevklqqo5o/s1600/blovespot+-+poetry+-+morning.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="blovespot - poetry - morning" border="0" height="213" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiGWvA364mjO6dUC0gEeissIDj4ITat7DJcDq7TgLMAYTiUgYQVI78o1gK9rtgV95Goc8GZIzysmuLfrsTL-eD6CT1_5mjBwBa3wI4_JtGZmLvxjf65I1xCNx4W3KdNNRVumRlevklqqo5o/s1600/blovespot+-+poetry+-+morning.jpg" title="blovespot - poetry - morning" width="320" /></a></div> Do not you want in one morning, when you wake up from your sleep there I could be so soundly asleep because you're next to me?<br /> Do not you want in one morning, you yell still sleeping because I had to go to work for our lives?<br /> Do not you want in one morning, you prepare breakfast for our children who do not want to eat before kissed his mother?<br /> Do not you want in one afternoon, you're at home watching your favorite show and I took time to call you just to say "I love you"?<br /> Do not you want in one afternoon, you saw me go home with a smile that hope welcomed by you and bring snacks for us to enjoy together?<br /> Do not you want in one night, after we pray we enjoyed dinner one table that you cook yourself then teach your child to spell?<br /> Do not you want in one night, I kissed your forehead as an expression of gratitude for the day that you give and you hold me so tight?<br /> Maybe it was my wish, but do not you want to be with me to enjoy a day like that.<br /> Know, I love every heartbeat that I strive for every time to enjoy time in the future as it is with you.<br /> <br /> by <a href="http://dkakurnia.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Dika Kurniawan</a>

Such Time

Do not you want in one morning, when you wake up from your sleep there I could be so soundly asleep because you're next to me? Do not...

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Sorry About

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLCAocWheekl2qqD4ci3Z4jadD2tYDN_pGb5VVaIW42tyDoYv8s1opMv-dCYYwH-P5ULeQj8vu4aeLln7I8XJCSmohkD0rcDsmC5KEmHN_3Q6UZXr9jywaneIFv-XUYCAjYLnVzrtt06Kt/s1600/blovespot+-+sorry+about.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img alt="blovespot - poetry - sorry about" border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjLCAocWheekl2qqD4ci3Z4jadD2tYDN_pGb5VVaIW42tyDoYv8s1opMv-dCYYwH-P5ULeQj8vu4aeLln7I8XJCSmohkD0rcDsmC5KEmHN_3Q6UZXr9jywaneIFv-XUYCAjYLnVzrtt06Kt/s1600/blovespot+-+sorry+about.gif" title="blovespot - poetry - sorry about" width="320" /></a></div> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Sorry, my heart is dead.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Apparently because such a love is a lie.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">I sin because I lied.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">I lied to myself.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">That you can live within me.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Because I was dead.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Brain and my heart was rotten.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">I just breathe and walk.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">But I was dead.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Sorry, giving injuries.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Because he is still alive in me and you can not replace it.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Because I lie has said that I love, but my heart she might.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Sorry I just gave you the wound.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Maybe I just turned disappointed, but if not I honestly have pleaded not afford to let go.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Even if he has to go, but my heart is expecting again.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Thank you, you have been slapped.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Not with your hand, but you asked.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Ask who hit me that I have not left it.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">My brain is still no trace his footsteps.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Not only as a trampling of wet soil, engraved in his footsteps.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Elapsed time with him was so thin.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Because I do not find either in my heart or my mind, I find. But I just found it.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Sorry, I have given you disappointed.</span><br /> <span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: inherit;">by <a href="http://dkakurnia.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">Dika Kurniawan</a></span>

Sorry About

Sorry, my heart is dead. Apparently because such a love is a lie. I sin because I lied. I lied to myself. That you can live within me....

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Proses Dibalik Keputusan Wanita (Bagian 8 - Selesai)

<br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="http://cache2.allpostersimages.com/p/LRG/26/2680/M6IUD00Z/posters/hancock-joseph-woman-with-wet-hair-and-body.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="http://cache2.allpostersimages.com/p/LRG/26/2680/M6IUD00Z/posters/hancock-joseph-woman-with-wet-hair-and-body.jpg" width="400" /></a></div> <br /> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>CAIRAN DAN WANITA</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ya, cairan dan wanita!</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika anda berfikir <i>“yang aneh-aneh”</i>, buang jauh-jauh pikiran anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Cairan yang saya maksud adalah hormon dan <i>neurotransmitter</i> seperti <i>Adrenalin</i>, <i>Testosterone</i>, <i>Esterogen</i>, <i>Endorphine</i> dan lain-lain yang dapat mempengaruhi <i>mood</i> / emosi wanita untuk membuatnya jatuh cinta.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Saya bersusah payah mempelajari BERBAGAI MACAM hormon dan neurotransmitter beserta <u>fungsinya</u> DEMI mencari jawaban akan zat mana yang paling berpengaruh untuk membuat wanita jatuh cinta.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Dari kompleksnya pencarian saya, ternyata hanya ada 2 zat yang PALING berpengaruh untuk membuat wanita jatuh cinta, yaitu <i><u>dopamine</u></i> dan <i><u>serotonin</u></i>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i><u>Dopamine</u></i> dan <i><u>serotonin</u></i> tidak hanya akan membuat wanita jatuh cinta kepada anda, namun juga SETIA.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Saya mulai dari <i><u>serotonin</u></i>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>Serotonin</i> digunakan dalam pil anti-depresi untuk membuat penderita depresi menjadi lebih tenang, senang dan <i>“cool”</i>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Saat saya mencari tau tentang <i>serotonin</i>, saya menemukan tulisan tentang eksperimen <i>serotonin</i> yang dilakukan oleh para ilmuwan kepada kera.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="http://alamendah.files.wordpress.com/2010/03/kera-hitam-sulawesi.gif" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://alamendah.files.wordpress.com/2010/03/kera-hitam-sulawesi.gif" width="204" /></a></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kera berbagi banyak kesamaan dengan manusia </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">termasuk <u>perilaku</u> saat menghadapi <u>situasi sosial</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ya, ya saya tau anda akan berfikir <i>“Masa gua </i></span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>disamain sama kera?”</i> namun jangan berkomentar </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">karena anda <u>memang</u> berbagi kesamaan dengan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">kera khususnya perilaku saat menghadapi situasi </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">sosial.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kera memiliki struktur hirarki sosial <i>(pecking order)</i> </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">dimana golongan paling atas disebut <i>Alpha Male</i>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>Alpha Male</i> dalam dunia kera adalah pemimpin para kera dalam kelompoknya </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">yang paling <u>disegani</u> dan <u>diminati</u> oleh kera-kera betina. Hal ini menyebabkan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">kera <i>alpha male</i> banyak istri.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Para peneliti menemukan bahwa kera-kera <i>alpha male</i> memiliki tingkat <i>serotonin</i> </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">lebih tinggi dari kera-kera pada umum nya. Perbedaan yang paling mencolok </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">adalah <u>perilaku</u> mereka.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Anda mungkin berfikir bahwa kera <i>alpha male</i> akan <u>selalu turun</u> untuk bertarung </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">melawan kera-kera lainnya karena hormon kejantanan (<i>testosteron</i> nya) tinggi.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kenyataan nya tidak begitu.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kera <i>alpha male</i> justru tidak bertarung melainkan menyuruh <u>jendral</u> nya yang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">bertarung.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ia hanya bertarung saat benar-benar diperlukan saja.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Anda juga pasti berfikir bahwa <u>sebagai pemimpin</u>, kera <i>alpha male</i> akan <u>rajin</u> </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">bekerja dan akan berusaha <u>menyelesaikan setiap masalah</u> dalam kelompoknya </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">bukan?</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ternyata TIDAK.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Justru kera <i>alpha male</i> malah lebih banyak tidur ketimbang rajin. Ia pun hanya </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">menyelesaikan masalah yang penting-penting saja.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika masalah kelompoknya dapat diselesaikan oleh kera-kera lain, ia akan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">membiarkan masalah tersebut diselesaikan oleh kera lain.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Yang menarik adalah saat dimana para ilmuwan mengambil <i>“kera umum”</i> dan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">memberikan nya pil anti-depresi generik bernama <i>prozac</i> untuk meningkatkan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">kadar <i>serotonin</i> dalam tubuh sang kera.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Dalam beberapa minggu, entah kenapa, <u>para betina</u> mulai memperhatikan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">sesuatu yang <u>beda</u> dari kera yang diberikan <i>prozac</i> tersebut.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ya, HANYA kera betina saja yang memperhatikan.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kemudian disusul dengan kera jantan yang memperhatikan.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Lalu tidak berapa lama, status <i>“kera umum”</i> tersebut akhirnya diakui menjadi </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>alpha male</i> oleh kelompoknya.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Hmmm…</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Sejenak setelah saya membaca tulisan tersebut, saya sempat terinspirasi untuk </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">membeli <i>prozac</i> dan memakan nya.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Namun Ya, saya belum segila itu.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Dalam situasi sosial, pria dengan kadar <i>serotonin</i> tinggi akan <u>berperilaku</u> lebih </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">tenang, <i>cool</i> dan hanya bereaksi pada saat-saat yang diperlukan saja.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Inilah yang menarik bagi wanita karena pria dengan <i>serotonin</i> tinggi akan tampak </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">lebih <u>elegan</u> dan <u>berkarisma</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i><b><u>Brad Pitt</u></b></i> memiliki <u><i>serotonin</i></u> tinggi.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="http://www.nataliemaclean.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/BradPitt1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://www.nataliemaclean.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/BradPitt1.jpg" width="150" /></a></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ya, ia juga memiliki kadar <i>testosteron</i> tinggi, namun saat ia berhadapan dengan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">wanita, perilakunya akan <i>cool</i> dan agak cuek karena ia dikendalikan <i>serotonin</i>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i><b><u>Barack Obama</u>, <u>John F. Kennedy</u>, <u>Sean Connery</u> (actor James Bond), <u>Johnny Deep</u></b></i> </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">serta <i><b><u>Adam Levine</u></b> </i>dari <i><b>band</b></i> <i><b>Maroon 5</b></i> memiliki <i>serotonin</i> tinggi.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Lalu apa yang harus anda lakukan untuk meningkatkan kadar <i>serotonin</i> anda?</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Apakah anda harus minum <i>prozac</i>?</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Tentu tidak.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Anda hanya cukup tau saja seperti apa karakteristik <u>perilaku</u> orang dengan kadar </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>serotonin</i> tinggi, lalu tiru <u>perilaku</u> tersebut.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Anehnya, saya menemukan bahwa perilaku orang dengan <i>serotonin</i> tinggi MIRIP </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">seperti karakteristik <u>pangeran impian</u> dalam dongeng lintas negara yang saya </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">sebutkan saat membahas LABEL <u>Pria Idaman</u> pada post-post sebelumnya.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Penjelasan karakteristik perilaku Pria ber-<i>serotonin</i> tinggi terdapat pada post-post selanjutnya.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Setelah <i><u>serotonin</u></i>, bagaimana dengan <i><u>dopamine</u></i>?</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i><u>Dopamine</u></i> adalah zat yang dapat memicu <u>Hasrat</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Apa itu <u>hasrat</u>, apa <u>fungsinya</u> dan bagaimana <u>memicunya</u> sudah saya bahas </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">sebelumnya pada post <a href="http://antoburdam.blogspot.com/2012/10/proses-dibalik-keputusan-wanita-bagian-3.html">Proses Dibalik Keputusan Wanita (Bagian 3 : Hasrat)</a>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Untuk lebih jelasnya, silahkan beli <i>eBook</i> <i><b>"Cara Memikat Wanita Idaman Anda"</b></i> <b>FULL VERSION </b>dari <b><u>Ronald Frank</u></b>, dengan mengunjungi: <a href="http://www.memikatwanita.com/">http://www.memikatwanita.com</a> dan untuk dapat terus terkoneksi dengan <b style="text-decoration: underline;">Ronald Frank</b>, anda dapat bergabung via <a href="http://www.facebook.com/pencintawanita">facebook Pencinta Wanita</a> atau <a href="http://www.twitter.com/ronald_frank">follow twitter Ronald Frank</a>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: xx-small;"><i>Sumber: Cara Memikat Wanita Idaman Anda Free Edition v2.0</i></span></div>

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Proses Dibalik Keputusan Wanita (Bagian 7)

<br /> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <b style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">LABEL BAGI PRIA</b></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b><br /></b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Setiap kali anda mendekati wanita, ia akan memberikan LABEL kepada anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Proses pemberian label ini berlangsung dalam 2 – 3 kali komunikasi / pertemuan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">awal nya dengan anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kabar buruknya, jika LABEL sudah diberikan, akan sulit bagi anda untuk </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">merubahnya.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Oleh karena itu, pertemuan / komunikasi awal <u>sebelum</u> wanita memberikan LABEL </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">kepada anda sangatlah penting.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Wanita mengkategorikan Pria dalam 4 kategori, yaitu: Teman / abang–ade, Sang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">pengejar, Pria Idaman dan Pria menyebalkan.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg629a1f0QTlTo_vJZgVpl7u9Qh0uJi_CNX4jqqn-20DO7bHEW-aKZ_mji8tiGh-bNqnvk6UwwcV4PC5iEB7JcinArVQdd11J7V9ltOXV_2Q1nrRBM8UM60W9Qtb55auAEOdoSeLqBG-c1H/s1600/4KategoriPria.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="252" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEg629a1f0QTlTo_vJZgVpl7u9Qh0uJi_CNX4jqqn-20DO7bHEW-aKZ_mji8tiGh-bNqnvk6UwwcV4PC5iEB7JcinArVQdd11J7V9ltOXV_2Q1nrRBM8UM60W9Qtb55auAEOdoSeLqBG-c1H/s640/4KategoriPria.JPG" width="640" /></a></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Mari saya bahas satu per satu tentang LABEL yang diberikan wanita kepada Pria </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">dan cara untuk membuatnya memberikan label terbaik untuk anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> </div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>TEMAN / ABANG–ADE</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeWc6yUhNlCA-lBrHsapEeOc9zn7Q9N31fnWBw7C7cIOcwnWDQeU6E4ez88HeTUob1Ew_WdgIILmqcG_l4lNKw4jl-48pHom2LaT4wTELsAyttzE_4B_ZkEvgN8nVjKpBFUo290bAxcyjc/s1600/teman.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjeWc6yUhNlCA-lBrHsapEeOc9zn7Q9N31fnWBw7C7cIOcwnWDQeU6E4ez88HeTUob1Ew_WdgIILmqcG_l4lNKw4jl-48pHom2LaT4wTELsAyttzE_4B_ZkEvgN8nVjKpBFUo290bAxcyjc/s200/teman.JPG" width="125" /></a></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika Wanita memberikan anda LABEL <u>teman / abang–</u></span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>ade</u>, ia akan senang bicara dengan anda, ia akan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">senang bertemu dengan anda, ia akan senang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">melakukan aktifitas bersama anda, NAMUN ia akan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>enggan</u> untuk INTIM dengan anda dan hanya bertindak </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">sebatas teman TANPA memiliki keinginan untuk </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">melangkah <u>lebih jauh</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kesalahan-kesalahan apa saja yang harus anda hindari </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">agar tidak mendapatkan LABEL teman / abang–ade </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">tertera pada post tentang <u><a href="http://antoburdam.blogspot.com/2012/10/proses-dibalik-keputusan-wanita-bagian-5.html">proses romantika dua insan</a></u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKRD2gT8gD4tT2VBWAlyyv1YIrSfDHJyJS4gbv9cWmCZ3UnRGoH5KF05vqjML4XtqFYkko9_ycvChnLaYx5imkgt_bIWCSOKxqxHsDUvYN5SDSlrjIcKXTBsayOpMJDKLI54iBqLHlqbhc/s1600/pengejar.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgKRD2gT8gD4tT2VBWAlyyv1YIrSfDHJyJS4gbv9cWmCZ3UnRGoH5KF05vqjML4XtqFYkko9_ycvChnLaYx5imkgt_bIWCSOKxqxHsDUvYN5SDSlrjIcKXTBsayOpMJDKLI54iBqLHlqbhc/s320/pengejar.JPG" width="201" /></a></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>SANG PENGEJAR</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika Wanita memberikan anda LABEL <u>Sang Pengejar</u>, ia </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">akan dekat dengan anda (bahkan menjadi pacar atau </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">istri anda), namun ia akan <u>mengendalikan</u> dan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>mengguna-gunakan</u> anda layaknya pembantu pribadi.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ya, <i>“sang pengejar”</i> memang telah membuat sang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">wanita jatuh cinta (tertarik + nyaman + hubungan batin), </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">namun sang wanitalah yang <u>pegang kendali</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Wanita akan memperlihatkan ketertarikan BAHKAN </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>bilang cinta</u> kepada <i>“sang pengejar”</i>, NAMUN yang ia lakukan hanyalah </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>menuntut</u> dan <u>meminta</u> ini itu tanpa memberikan <i>“sang pengejar”</i> cinta yang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>seharusnya</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Dan jika <i>“sang pengejar”</i> menolak permintaan sang wanita, sang wanita akan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">marah, kesal, ngambek, lalu memperlakukan <i>“sang pengejar”</i> layaknya orang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">yang TIDAK PANTAS mendapatkan dirinya dengan berkata:</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>“Aku ga suka cowo sok sibuk yang ga mau anterin aku jalan-jalan!”</i></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>“Pokoknya GA MAU TAU! …kamu kesini sekarang juga!”</i></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <i><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">“AKU GA MAU TAU! Pokoknya aku mau TAS MERAH! …MALU DONG aku sama </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">temen-temen aku yang udah punya tas merah! …kamu cowo apa bukan sih? </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">…cowo macem apa kamu ga bisa beli’in aku tas?”</span></i></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <i><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">“Dasar cowo ga tanggung jawab! Masa ga mau bantuin aku? …kamu pilih aku </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">atau tanggung jawab kerjaan kamu?”</span></i></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>“Siapa kamu? aku ga kenal!”</i></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Dan hal itu tentu menyebabkan <i>“sang pengejar”</i> <u>mengalah</u> lalu mengikuti apapun </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">kemauan sang wanita demi <b>“MENDAMAIKAN”</b> suasana.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Pernahkah anda <u>melakukan segalanya</u> demi wanita namun ia <u>sama sekali</u> tidak </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">menghargai anda bahkan sering mempermalukan anda didepan teman-teman </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">nya?</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Hmmm…</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Tak peduli seberapa <u>baik</u>, <u>manis</u> dan <u>tulus</u> nya seorang wanita, JIKA ia sudah </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">memberikan anda LABEL <u>sang pengejar</u>, ia akan mengendalikan, mengguna-gunakan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">dan <u>tidak menghormati</u> anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ya, ya, kedengaran nya kejam, namun itulah NALURI wanita.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ingat bahwa NALURI bekerja <u>tanpa kesadaran</u>. Wanita tidak menyusun rencana </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">atau bermaksud mengendalikan, mengguna-gunakan apalagi <u>tidak menghormati</u> </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anda. Yang wanita tau hanyalah dirinya tiba-tiba <u>kesal</u> TANPA alasan yang jelas, </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">lalu menumpahkan semua kepada anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika wanita memberikan anda LABEL <i>“sang pengejar”</i> dan <u>memegang kendali</u>, </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">maka hubungan anda (baik jadi pacar atau suaminya) akan penuh <u>drama</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kesalahan-kesalahan apa saja yang harus anda hindari agar tidak mendapatkan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">LABEL <u>sang pengejar</u> akan saya jelaskan pada post-post selanjutnya</span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">, dimana saya membahas 2 hal sederhana agar anda dapat </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">memegang <u>kendali</u> dan membuat wanita menghargai, menghormati, bahkan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>bangga</u> memamerkan <i>“cinta mati”</i> nya kepada anda, didepan teman-teman </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">nya.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika anda menguasai 2 hal sederhana ini, <u>drama</u> akan berkurang, dan <u>cinta</u> </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">meningkat pesat.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>PRIA IDAMAN</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghyI9-1_dYrIaJp8h52Z50PXHh8VAkecIJvyvq6f36WvDL-n0CWrTnClZzRf6Ip4hyphenhyphenkQC7rq_itK-NEhoGz1npHzgG2QGiR2YXqRskt5X4jiHZDItwEf8fXEAqFTO9DsoL0aH1CTx55JlX/s1600/idaman.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEghyI9-1_dYrIaJp8h52Z50PXHh8VAkecIJvyvq6f36WvDL-n0CWrTnClZzRf6Ip4hyphenhyphenkQC7rq_itK-NEhoGz1npHzgG2QGiR2YXqRskt5X4jiHZDItwEf8fXEAqFTO9DsoL0aH1CTx55JlX/s320/idaman.JPG" width="203" /></a></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika Wanita memberikan anda LABEL <u>Pria Idaman</u>, anda </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">akan memegang <u>kendali</u> atas sang wanita, yang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">menyebabkan sang wanita <u>dengan suka rela</u> dan dengan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>segenap kemampuan</u> melakukan apapun untuk anda </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">dengan penuh cinta.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Wanita melihat Pria Idaman sebagai <u>sang pangeran</u> yang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">mereka impi-impikan sejak kecil.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Hampir setiap negara memiliki dongeng tentang seorang <i>“wanita biasa”</i> yang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">menantikan seorang pangeran untuk datang menyelamatkan sang wanita dari </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">kehidupan membosankan nya, lalu berakhir dengan <u>kisah cinta</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Dongeng tersebut menggambarkan <u>jeritan hasrat</u> setiap wanita yang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">mendambakan seorang Pria Idaman untuk datang menyelamatkan sang wanita </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">dari kehidupan percintaan yang kelam.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kabar baiknya, karakteristik <i>“sang pangeran”</i> tersebut mudah dipelajari.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Pada post-post selanjutnya saya akan membahas tuntas tentang <u>Karakter Pria Idaman</u> yang identik </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">dengan karakteristik <i>“sang pangeran”</i>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Dan juga, instruksi langkah demi langkah untuk mendapatkan LABEL <u>Pria </u></span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>Idaman</u>, dimana saya membahas cara Pria Idaman <u>berkomunikasi</u> dengan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">wanita, mulai dari <u>bahasa tubuh</u> yang <i>powerful</i>, <u>tatapan mata</u> yang menawan, </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>topik pembicaraan</u> yang menarik, hingga cara Pria Idaman <u>membaca pikiran</u> </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">sang wanita hanya melalui tatapan mata.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>PRIA MENYEBALKAN</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzGYiQwDEH2ubIVOvxjxPyWkQTqU8RZ7dd3HD8gYpOZ2dUWe70irQS_zsHXmEblSUiHC4PpUCVy09jjZUQmJpx_vkp9aV44WqF3jliA7AWX_jsnOZYPle99MzhBgzmevJG-iIeFilwgeou/s1600/menyebalkan.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhzGYiQwDEH2ubIVOvxjxPyWkQTqU8RZ7dd3HD8gYpOZ2dUWe70irQS_zsHXmEblSUiHC4PpUCVy09jjZUQmJpx_vkp9aV44WqF3jliA7AWX_jsnOZYPle99MzhBgzmevJG-iIeFilwgeou/s320/menyebalkan.JPG" width="201" /></a></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika Wanita memberikan anda LABEL <u>Pria menyebalkan</u>, </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anda akan mendapatkan 3 respon buruk, yaitu DIABAIKAN, </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">DIJAUHI atau DITINGGALKAN.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jangan pikir anda dapat memperbaiki keadaan jika wanita </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">sudah memberikan LABEL <u>Pria menyebalkan</u> untuk anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">LABEL <u>Pria menyebalkan</u> adalah SKAK MAT untuk anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kebanyakan kasus FANS SEMENTARA (tertarik – nyaman + hubungan batin) adalah </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">pria yang mendapatkan LABEL <i>“Pria menyebalkan”</i> dari wanita.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Akan sangat bijaksana bagi anda untuk MELANGKAH PERGI dan tidak </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">menghabiskan waktu memperbaiki REPUTASI jika wanita sudah memberikan anda </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">LABEL <u>Pria menyebalkan</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Namun jangan salah mengartikan LABEL <u>Pria menyebalkan</u> dengan kalimat</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>“Kamu nyebelin banget sih?”,</i></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i><br /></i></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>“Sebel aku sama kamu!”</i></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">atau</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>“ih nyebelin!”</i></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">yang diberikan wanita.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Yang memastikan LABEL <u>Pria menyebalkan</u> bukanlah dari <u>perkataan</u>, melainkan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>perbuatan</u> sang wanita.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Lalu perbuatan apa yang menandakan LABEL <u>Pria menyebalkan</u>? Ya 3 hal yang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">saya sebutkan tadi, yaitu DIABAIKAN, DIJAUHI atau DITINGGALKAN.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Pada post-post selanjutnya saya akan menjelaskan 3 </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">kesalahan yang menyebabkan anda mendapatkan LABEL <u>Pria menyebalkan</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Pahami ketiga kesalahan tersebut sebagai dan antisipasi <u>sebelum</u> wanita </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">memberikan anda LABEL <u>Pria menyebalkan</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Hingga titik ini anda sudah mengetahui 4 LABEL yang diberikan wanita.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Untuk pemahaman lebih jelas tentang LABEL, saya sertakan beberapa pertanyaan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">umum dan jawaban nya dibawah.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>PERTANYAAN #1:</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Apakah wanita dapat langsung memberikan LABEL saat pertemuan pertama (<i>first </i></span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>impression</i>)?</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika anda <u>tidak menarik sama sekali</u> saat pertemuan pertama, anda akan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">langsung mendapat label pria menyebalkan.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika anda cukup menarik saat pertemuan pertama, wanita akan menunda </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">pemberian label hingga pertemuan / komunikasi lebih lanjut.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>PERTANYAAN #2:</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kapan dan apa tandanya wanita sudah memberikan LABEL?</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Waktu pemberian label sangat bervariasi bagi setiap wanita, namun yang pasti, </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">label akan diberikan maksimal 3 kali pertemuan (kencan) dengan anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Pemberian label pun dapat diberikan saat anda berkomunikasi lewat telepon atau </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">text walaupun sang wanita belum bertemu dengan anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Tanda untuk mengetahui apakah wanita sudah memberikan label kepada anda </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">adalah:</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Label <u>Teman / Abang–Ade</u>: Wanita <u>enggan</u> INTIM dengan anda dan hanya </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">bertindak sebatas teman TANPA memiliki keinginan untuk melangkah <u>lebih jauh</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Label <u>Sang Pengejar</u>: Wanita akan tampak <u>keras</u> dan <u>sulit</u> dikendalikan. Ia akan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">kerap <u>menuntut</u> anda memenuhi keinginan nya tanpa mau mengerti <u>kesulitan</u> </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Label <u>Pria Idaman</u>: Wanita menelpon anda hampir tiap hari menyatakan mereka </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>kangen</u>, <u>cinta</u> dan <u>sayang</u> kepada anda. Ia pun <u>tidak banyak menuntut</u> bahkan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">lebih sering memberi cinta kepada anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Label <u>Pria Menyebalkan</u>: Anda DIABAIKAN, DIJAUHI atau DITINGGALKAN.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>PERTANYAAN #3:</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Apakah kata <i>“pengejar”</i> pada Label <u>sang pengejar</u> menandakan bahwa </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">mengejar wanita itu salah? Jika ya, apakah itu berarti <u>Pria Idaman</u> tidak boleh </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">mengejar wanita?</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ya. Mengejar wanita itu <u>salah</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Mengapa?</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Karena jika anda mengejar wanita, maka anda akan memaksakan diri anda untuk </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">mendapatkan cinta sang wanita dengan menyerahkan kendali (dan harga diri) </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anda demi cinta sang wanita.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Anda mungkin saja mendapatkan wanita dengan cara mengejarnya, namun </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anda akan <u>dikendalikan</u> oleh sang wanita dan hidup anda akan penuh <u>drama</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ya, memang ada beberapa Pria yang mengejar wanita sekaligus memegang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">kendali, namun itu amat sangat jarang adanya.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jangan mengejar wanita melainkan <u>dekati</u> mereka.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Beda mendekati wanita dengan mengejar wanita akan saya jelaskan pada post-post selanjutnya.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: xx-small;"><i>Sumber: Cara Memikat Wanita Idaman Anda Free Edition v2.0</i></span></div>

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Proses Dibalik Keputusan Wanita (Bagian 6)

<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="http://cdn2.teen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/breaking-dawn-emotion-in-love_400x400.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://cdn2.teen.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/breaking-dawn-emotion-in-love_400x400.jpg" width="400" /></a></div> <br /> <br /> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>RADAR EMOSI</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b><br /></b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Sampai titik ini, anda sudah mempelajari RUMUS JATUH CINTA yang pada dasarnya </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">adalah EMOSI.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Namun sebelum anda dapat meyakinkan (atau menguasai) EMOSI wanita, ada </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">satu hal yang harus anda kuasai terlebih dahulu, yaitu <u>emosi anda sendiri</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Mengapa?</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Karena wanita memiliki NALURI <u>untuk menilai</u> Pria yang <u>tidak dapat</u> mengendalikan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">emosi sebagai Pria <u>lemah</u>, dan Pria yang dapat mengendalikan emosi sebagai </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Pria <u>kuat</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Saya jelaskan lebih lanjut.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ada radar dikepala manusia yang dapat mendeteksi EMOSI orang disekitarnya.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Pernahkah anda <u>jenuh</u> atau <u>galau</u> namun tiba-tiba anda jadi <u>senang</u> karena </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">teman anda yang sedang senang datang menyapa anda?</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Pernahkah anda sedang <u>senang</u> bermain game namun tiba-tiba <u>marah</u> karena </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">orang tua anda yang baru pulang kerja datang sambil marah-marah kepada </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anda?</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Atau pernahkah anda tiba-tiba <u>tidak dapat menahan tawa</u> karena mendengar </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">orang didekat anda <u>tertawa </u>geli?</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Coba saja anda kumpul bersama teman-teman lalu tertawalah secara tiba-tiba.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jangan kaget jika mereka tiba-tiba juga ikut tertawa.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Emosi itu <u>menular</u> dan wanita memiliki radar 10 kali lebih sensitif daripada Pria.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ya, 10 kali lebih sensitif.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Dengan kata lain, wanita 10 kali lebih mahir <u>membaca emosi</u> daripada Pria.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Oleh karena itu, jika anda bergaya keren didepan wanita namun anda grogi,</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Dia tau.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika anda tampil penuh percaya diri namun dalam hati anda resah,</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Dia tau.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika anda BERBOHONG dan merasa tidak nyaman karena kebohongan anda,</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Dia tau.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Tak peduli seberapa mahir nya anda menyembunyikan perasaan (emosi) anda </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">didepan wanita,</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Dia tau.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Saat anda grogi, takut kehilangan, resah, dan putus asa dihadapan wanita, ia </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">akan <u>dalam sekejab</u> menilai anda <u>lemah</u> karena anda <u>dikendalikan</u> emosi.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Saat anda percaya diri, tenang, merasa <i>sexy</i> dan merasa sebagai Pria idaman </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">dihadapan wanita, ia akan <u>dalam sekejab</u> menilai anda <u>kuat</u> dan <u>menarik</u> karena </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anda dapat <u>mengendalikan</u> emosi anda ketimbang dikendalikan emosi.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ini juga membuat sang wanita melihat anda sebagai PEGANGAN yang ia </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">butuhkan untuk menstabilkan gejolak emosi nya <u>setiap hari</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Wanita juga <u>secara tidak sadar</u> akan <u>sering</u> memberikan anda <u>tes kestabilan </u></span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>emosi</u>, yaitu perilaku <u>menyebalkan</u> seperti ngambek, maksa dan marah-marah </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">tanpa alasan yang jelas dengan tujuan untuk melihat apakah anda dapat </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">mengendalikan emosi anda atau tidak.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika anda <u>goyah</u>, <u>tunduk</u>, atau terpancing <u>marah</u> saat wanita memberikan tes </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">kestabilan emosi, wanita akan mengguna-gunakan, memainkan, merendahkan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">bahkan menjauhi anda tanpa alasan yang jelas.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Namun jika anda tetap <i>“stay in control”</i> saat wanita memberikan tes kestabilan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">emosi, ia akan memberikan 1001 macam label baik untuk anda mulai dari <i>“kamu </i></span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>dewasa”</i>, <i>“kamu keren”</i>, <i>“kamu cool”</i>, <i>“kamu ngeselin tapi ngangenin”</i>, dan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">banyak lagi.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Oleh karena itu sangatlah PENTING bagi anda untuk dapat mengendalikan emosi </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anda KHUSUSNYA saat berhadapan dengan wanita, karena wanita tidak hanya </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">melihat <u>tingkah laku</u> dan <u>sifat</u> anda saja, melainkan juga melihat jauh kedalam diri </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anda untuk MERASAKAN <u>emosi</u> anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Saya akan membahas cara <u>mengendalikan emosi</u> dan juga cara </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">menghadapi <u>tes kestabilan emosi</u> pada post-post selanjutnya.</span></div> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"></span><br /> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span style="font-size: xx-small;"><i>Sumber: Cara Memikat Wanita Idaman Anda Free Edition v2.0</i></span></span></div> <br />

Proses Dibalik Keputusan Wanita (Bagian 6)

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Proses Dibalik Keputusan Wanita (Bagian 5)

<br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="http://www.leisurelygentlemen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Romance.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="400" src="http://www.leisurelygentlemen.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Romance.jpg" width="266" /></a></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>PROSES ROMANTIKA DUA INSAN</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Setelah anda tau bahwa <u>Jatuh cinta</u> adalah <u>NALURI</u> yang bereaksi secara </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>otomatis</u>, dimana <u>EMOSI</u> adalah pemicunya, dan <u>hasrat</u> mempercepat prosesnya </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">nya, kini saatnya kita <u>menggabungkan</u> semua proses tersebut menjadi SATU </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">FORMULA untuk membuat wanita <u>jatuh cinta</u> kepada anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>Dr. Hellen Fisher</i> dalam bukunya <i>“Why We Love: The Nature and Chemistry of </i></span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>Romantic Love”</i> menyatakan bahwa cinta adalah penggabungan beberapa </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">hormon dalam tubuh yang membentuk EMOSI.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Untuk mempermudah anda mengerti keseluruhan proses jatuh cinta, saya tidak </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">akan panjang lebar menjelaskan tentang hormon, melainkan saya persingkat </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">menjadi sebuah formula sederhana, yaitu:</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: red; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>JATUH CINTA = TERTARIK + NYAMAN + HUBUNGAN BATIN</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Yang tertera diatas adalah RUMUS JATUH CINTA.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Rumus diatas adalah <b>RUMUS UNIVERSAL</b> yang berlaku untuk SEMUA WANITA.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Tertarik, Nyaman dan Hubungan Batin pada dasarnya adalah EMOSI. Saat ketiga </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">emosi tersebut melebur menjadi satu, wanita akan <u>jatuh cinta</u> kepada anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Mari kita telusuri lebih dalam akan ketiga EMOSI tersebut.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Definisi <b>TERTARIK</b> = Rasa ingin TERLIBAT dalam KEHIDUPAN seseorang.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika seorang wanita TERTARIK kepada anda, ia <u>ingin terlibat</u> didalam kehidupan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anda. Ia akan <u>menanyakan kegiatan</u> anda dan ingin melakukan <u>aktifitas</u> bersama </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anda. Ia ingin ADA bersama anda karena kehidupan anda menarik untuknya.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Definisi <b>NYAMAN</b> = Rasa PERCAYA kepada seseorang.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika seorang wanita NYAMAN dengan anda, ia akan <u>percaya</u> dengan anda. Ia </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">akan menceritakan rahasianya kepada anda, Ia tidak risih saat anda dekat dan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">menyentuhnya, ia pun merasa bebas untuk dekat dengan anda karena ia </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>percaya</u> bahwa anda <u>tidak akan melakukan hal buruk</u> terhadapnya.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Definisi <b>HUBUNGAN BATIN</b> = Rasa PEDULI (sayang) kepada seseorang.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika seorang wanita memiliki HUBUNGAN BATIN dengan anda, ia akan PEDULI </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">kepada anda. Ia akan menanyakan apakah anda <u>baik-baik saja</u>, apakah anda </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>sehat</u>, apakah anda <u>sudah makan</u>, dan hal-hal yang menunjukan rasa </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>kepedulian</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ingat bahwa Tertarik, Nyaman dan Hubungan Batin harus dirasakan wanita untuk </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">dapat <u>jatuh cinta</u> kepada anda. Jika salah satu emosi tersebut tidak dirasakan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">wanita, maka akan terjadi kesalahan.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>Kesalahan yang sering terjadi:</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: red; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>TERTARIK + NYAMAN (tanpa hubungan batin) = TEMAN BIASA</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika wanita berkata <i>“kita cocoknya jadi teman saja”</i> kepada anda, itu disebabkan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">karena sang wanita sudah TERTARIK (untuk <u>dekat</u> dengan anda) dan NYAMAN </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">(untuk <u>pergi berdua</u>, <u>berbagi cerita</u> dan <u>melakukan aktifitas</u> bersama anda), </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">NAMUN ia belum merasakan HUBUNGAN BATIN untuk PEDULI kepada anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika wanita sudah <u>tertarik</u> dan <u>nyaman</u> namun <u>belum ada hubungan batin</u>, ia </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">hanya akan menjadi TEMAN BIASA.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: red; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>TERTARIK + HUBUNGAN BATIN (namun tidak nyaman) = FANS SEMENTARA</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika wanita TERTARIK kepada anda namun ENTAH KENAPA ia tiba-tiba menjauhi </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anda, itu disebabkan karena sang wanita sudah TERTARIK (untuk <u>dekat</u> dengan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anda), ia sudah memiliki HUBUNGAN BATIN (untuk <u>peduli</u> dengan anda), namun ia </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">BELUM NYAMAN untuk <u>percaya</u> kepada anda sepenuhnya. Itulah yang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">menyebabkan dirinya menjauhi anda dan hanya menjadi FANS SEMENTARA bagi </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Beberapa hal yang menyebabkan ketidak nyamanan dalam diri wanita adalah:</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> </div> <ol> <li><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Anda bergerak <u>terlalu cepat</u> untuk <u>menunjukan cinta</u> anda kepada sang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">wanita, yang menyebabkan sang wanita merasa <u>terancam</u> karena ia </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">merasa belum mengenal anda cukup lama. (Pada post-post selanjutnya saya akan membahas teknik </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">membuat wanita yang baru anda temui seperti sudah merasa mengenal anda sejak lama)</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Anda bergerak <u>terlalu cepat</u> dengan <u>menyentuh</u> sang wanita sana-sini. Ini </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">menyebabkan sang wanita merasa <u>risih</u> kepada anda karena ia merasa </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">belum NYAMAN untuk disentuh oleh anda.</span></li> <li><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Sahabat, kerabat atau keluarga sang wanita tidak setuju anda dekat </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">dengan sang wanita. Hal ini menyebabkan sang wanita tidak nyaman </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">dengan anda karena ia takut ditekan atau dijauhi oleh sahabat, kerabat </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">atau keluarganya.</span></li> </ol> <br /> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika wanita sudah <u>tertarik</u> dan <u>memiliki hubungan batin</u> namun <u>belum nyaman</u>, ia </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">hanya akan menjadi FANS SEMENTARA.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: red; font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b>NYAMAN + HUBUNGAN BATIN (namun tidak tertarik) = Abang / Ade</b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika anda menyatakan cinta kepada wanita lalu ia berkata <i>“kita cocoknya jadi </i></span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><i>abang-ade (kakak–adik) aja”</i>, ini disebabkan karena sang wanita NYAMAN </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">(untuk <u>berbagi cerita</u> dan <u>melakukan aktifitas</u> dengan anda), ia memiliki </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">HUBUNGAN BATIN (untuk <u>peduli</u> kepada anda), NAMUN ia BELUM TERTARIK untuk </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><u>masuk kedalam kehidupan</u> anda karena kehidupan anda MEMBOSANKAN. Itulah </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">sebabnya ia hanya ingin sekedar sayang-sayangan <u>sebagai adik</u> saja.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Jika wanita sudah <u>nyaman</u> dan memiliki <u>hubungan batin</u> namun <u>belum tertarik</u> </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">kepada anda, ia akan menganggap hubungan nya dengan anda sebatas </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Abang/Ade saja.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Lalu bagaimana cara menimbulkan rasa TERTARIK, NYAMAN dan HUBUNGAN </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">BATIN dalam diri wanita? Saya jelaskan satu per satu.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Definisi <b>TERTARIK</b> adalah <u>rasa ingin TERLIBAT dalam KEHIDUPAN seseorang</u>. Oleh </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">karena itu, untuk membuat diri anda MENARIK, anda perlu membangun </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">KEHIDUPAN yang MENARIK agar wanita tertarik untuk mengetahui dan akhirnya </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">terlibat dalam kehidupan anda yang menarik.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Kehidupan menarik = Pria menarik.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Tanpa kehidupan menarik, anda akan tampak <u>membosankan</u> bagi wanita.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><b><u>Bagaimana memiliki kehidupan yang menarik?</u></b></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">[ 4 Poin tentang cara memiliki kehidupan yang menarik, akan saya bahas pada post-post selanjutnya</span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"> ]</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Mari kita lanjutkan dengan cara membuat wanita NYAMAN kepada anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Definisi <b>NYAMAN</b> adalah <u>Rasa PERCAYA kepada seseorang</u>. Oleh karena itu, untuk </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">dapat membuat wanita NYAMAN dan PERCAYA kepada anda, wanita harus </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">melihat 4 hal yang ada dalam diri anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">[ 4 Poin tentang cara membuat wanita nyaman, </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">akan saya bahas pada post-post selanjutnya </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">]</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Mari kita lanjutkan dengan cara membuat wanita merasakan HUBUNGAN BATIN.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Definisi <b>HUBUNGAN BATIN</b> adalah <u>Rasa PEDULI kepada seseorang</u>. Untuk membuat </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">wanita memiliki HUBUNGAN BATIN dengan anda, ia harus terlebih dahulu </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">merasakan KEPEDULIAN dari anda.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Mengapa?</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Karena dengan mendemonstrasikan KEPEDULIAN, sang wanita akan melihat anda </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">sebagai Pria yang <u>siap menerima</u> kepedulian darinya, karena ia merasakan </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">hubungan batin.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Ada 2 bentuk kepedulian yang harus anda berikan kepada wanita agar sang </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">wanita dapat merasakan hubungan batin kepada anda, yaitu melalui <u>PERBUATAN</u> </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">(Bukan perkataan) dan <u>SENTUHAN</u>.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">Bentuk kepedulian melalui <u>perbuatan</u> dan Bentuk </span><span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">kepedulian melalui <u>sentuhan</u> akan saya bahas pada post-post selanjutnya.</span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><br /></span></div> <div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: xx-small;"><i>Sumber: Cara Memikat Wanita Idaman Anda Free Edition v2.0</i></span></div>

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